5 Signs that you have fallen in love
Falling in love…this is a feeling that no individual can fully describe. Love is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world. When two souls connect to become one, nothing else in the world really matters to you than the person you love. Your heart only beats for one person alone. When you have no idea why the person you love makes it beat faster, planting a magnificent smile on your face and butterfly filled tummy follows. Love is timeless and immeasurable. Men have gone to war for it, women have committed treason for it while others have ended their very own lives in its name. It’s a feeling that can’t be controlled, explained but simply felt. As much as love has been termed as “Overrated” in our technological era, it still exists and prevails. Here are the telltale signs:
Always on your mind
You know you are in love when all you think of is this special someone. You wonder to yourself what this person is doing, thinking and feeling. You keep checking your phone, looking forward to a text or a call from them. Times when they don’t reply to any of your texts or calls, your mind goes into a worrisome frenzy. You might have just gone on a few days with this person but when you look forward to seeing them on a daily basis, you are definitely smitten.
Jealousy
Another telltale sign that you are in too deep is whenever you feel a jealous pang suffocate you once the special person is talking to anyone affectionately. The lump on your throat builds up as anger and frustration boils up deep down. In some cases, jealousy can be a sign of insecurity. However, if you are yet to prophesy your undying love then you are definitely in love.
Stalking
Yes stalking can be creepy but it can also be very cute depending on how you look at it. There will be moments where you will find yourself searching through their social media accounts. Liking all her thoughts and comments and taking a keen interest in how her life is fairing on is not a misconduct of your behavior. For sure, you are definitely falling in love. When you love something, you tend to carry out a vast research on it, its whereabouts and origin. This can be compared to stalking and in most cases will be considered cute and fluttering if the person you are stalking is into you too.
Selfless
Anyone in love will display affectionate gestures to the person in question. Love is a selfless act that shares unconditionally. Once you find yourself giving random gifts and making other displays of affection then you are well on your way into love-ville. Love often makes you place others needs before you’re won and this gesture comes with no regret.
People have different ways of displaying their love depending on the different experiences they have been through. When you lower expectations from the cliché of buying roses and chocolates, you will notice that there’s love all around being manifested in very unique ways. Sometimes, you don’t have to say “I love you” to mean it. After all, actions speak louder than words.
